Having a back-up plan or putting all your eggs in one basket????
Hi guys,how is your week going.Am sure its going on fine.Mine is not bad as well which am thankful for.Work has been going on fine,its no more as stressful as it used to be.
Well my girlfriends and i were arguing about something and i just decided to share it with you guys.We were all at work,one of my friends now brought up a topic of having a back up plan.Is it right to have a back up plan or you should put all your eggs in a basket???? In my own opinion having a back up plan comes in two ways....you have to look at some things first.How is your relationship?If you are in a very serious relationship then what the hell do you need a back up plan for???Because you having a back up plan might even affect your relationship because you'll get distracted.You wont get to focus on your relationship.....My bad,i dint get to explain what back up plan means....it means you having a person kept in reserve who serves as subtitute.On the other hand if you've been in a relationship for years and you still dont see it as a serious one,why not have a back up plan..someone you gonna put in the friend zone in case anything happens in your relationship.I was with my friend the other day when her boyfriend called her.After the call,i was like wats up with you and your boyfriend ..why were you sounding like that on the fone.Then she explained to me that they've been dating for more than six years and the guy stilll doesnt want to be serious.I told her that fine am not saying you shouldnt have a back up plan but dont get carried away with it,still try and work on you relationship.You can make him get serious,it all depends on you.
After watching 'Temptation..confession of a marriage councellor' by Tyler Perry,i got to know that its what is really happening.When you in a relaionship,there will be a time you will meet someone new.He will do everything that your boyfriend doesnt do,he'll make you feel on top of the world,shower you with gifts.You start paying less attention to your boyfriend because of the new guy.Dont ever make the mistake of getting blinded by all those things because most times it doesnt last and you gonna regret losing your boyfriend in that process.
Am not against someone having a back up plan or someone putting all her eggs in one basket.It all depends on how your relationship is.
So guys which one do you support....is it having a back up plan or putting your eggs in one bascket????
Well my girlfriends and i were arguing about something and i just decided to share it with you guys.We were all at work,one of my friends now brought up a topic of having a back up plan.Is it right to have a back up plan or you should put all your eggs in a basket???? In my own opinion having a back up plan comes in two ways....you have to look at some things first.How is your relationship?If you are in a very serious relationship then what the hell do you need a back up plan for???Because you having a back up plan might even affect your relationship because you'll get distracted.You wont get to focus on your relationship.....My bad,i dint get to explain what back up plan means....it means you having a person kept in reserve who serves as subtitute.On the other hand if you've been in a relationship for years and you still dont see it as a serious one,why not have a back up plan..someone you gonna put in the friend zone in case anything happens in your relationship.I was with my friend the other day when her boyfriend called her.After the call,i was like wats up with you and your boyfriend ..why were you sounding like that on the fone.Then she explained to me that they've been dating for more than six years and the guy stilll doesnt want to be serious.I told her that fine am not saying you shouldnt have a back up plan but dont get carried away with it,still try and work on you relationship.You can make him get serious,it all depends on you.
After watching 'Temptation..confession of a marriage councellor' by Tyler Perry,i got to know that its what is really happening.When you in a relaionship,there will be a time you will meet someone new.He will do everything that your boyfriend doesnt do,he'll make you feel on top of the world,shower you with gifts.You start paying less attention to your boyfriend because of the new guy.Dont ever make the mistake of getting blinded by all those things because most times it doesnt last and you gonna regret losing your boyfriend in that process.
Am not against someone having a back up plan or someone putting all her eggs in one basket.It all depends on how your relationship is.
So guys which one do you support....is it having a back up plan or putting your eggs in one bascket????
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